Tuesday, June 26, 2007

A Box Full of Kisses....Very Cute n touchy Story...Must Read...




We all live but like common people..

Jena ha aiso jiyo kisi ke liye misal ban jao..
Kya laye the ...kya le kar jana ha...
Ab tak kya kiya ha..aur kya karna ha....
Sabko pyar do... B'cos ek din sabko jana ha..



Read this cute short story below.......

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, "Don't you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, "Oh, Daddy, it's not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They're all for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each one of us, as humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses... from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.

Monday, June 25, 2007

" The Power of Holding Hands".........


I was sitting on a beach one summer day, watching two children, a boy and a girl, playing in the sand.
They were hard at work building an elaborate sandcastle by the water's edge with gates and towers and moats and internal passages. Just when they had nearly finished their project, a big wave came along and knocked it down, reducing it to a heap of wet sand.
I expected the children to burst into tears, devastated by what had happened to all their hard work. But they surprised me. Instead, they ran up the shore away from the water, laughing and holding hands, and sat down to build another castle.
I realized that they had taught me an important lesson. All the things in our lives, all the complicated structures we spend so much time and energy creating, are built on sand.
our relationships to other people endure. Sooner or later, the wave will come along and knock down what we have worked so hard to build up. When that happens, only the person who has somebody's hand to hold will be able to laugh.

Aadi




People come into your life for a reason....!!!!!


PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

Thank you for being a part of my life,whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Aadi

Saturday, June 23, 2007

A GIRL IN LOVE - Shaayad unse pyaar karne lagi hun..!............


Pehle mein chain se soya karti thi,
ab raaton ko karvatein badalne lagi hun.

pehle mein sabse bahut baatein kiya karti thi,
ab chupchaap rehne lagi hun.


pehle mein mehfilon mein raha karti thi,
ab akeli rehni lagi hun.


shaayri aur kavitaaon ka shokh nahi tha mujhe,
par ab khud shaayri likhne lagi hun
.


unse mulakat hone ke baad,
jaane kyun unke baare mein hi sochne lagi hun.


pehle mein doston ki nakal kiya karti thi,
ab aaine ke saamne unki nakal karne lagi hun.


zindagi ke safar mein akele chalte chalte achanak,
unke saath chalne ki khwayish karne lagi hun.


sablog unka naam le lekar mujhe pareshaan kiya karte the,
par ab yeh pareshaani bhi pasand karne lagi hun.


jo lamhe humne saath bitaye the,
woh lamhe ab roz yaad karne lagi hun.


woh mujhe jin baaton par hasaya karte the,
ab un baaton ko dohra dohra kar hasne lagi hun.


sab log mere khoye khoye rehne ki wajah puchte the,
par ab yahi sawaal khud se puchne lagi hun.


bhale hi woh mujhse door hain par,
har ghadi unki aahat mehsoos karne lagi hun.


ab to unka zikar hone par,
main to sharmane lagi hun.


pehle main mandir jaati thi bhagwan ke darshan karne,
par ab unke darshan ki duaa maangne lagi hun
.


pehle woh mujhe begaane lagte the,
par ab unme woh apnapan mehsoos karne lagi hun.


pehle main pyaar ki baatein bilkul nahi samajhti thi,
par ab woh sab samjhne lagi hun.


main apni khudki haalat pe hairan hun,
main aisi kyun hone lagi hun?

mujhe aisa lagta hai yaaron,
shaayad mein unse pyaar karne lagi hun..!

Aadi

Friday, June 22, 2007

The Too-Comfortable Zone..Fight The Urge To " Let Urself Go Once You Are a Part Of A Couple "


Cozy in Love

It's a big milestone in any new relationship: entering the Comfort Zone. You're there the first time you two rent a movie in sweats instead of dolling up for dinner, when you do something silent and separate (like work you've brought home) together, when -- perhaps most romantic of all -- you both do...an errand. No, really: that's when you truly start to feel cozy and couple-y. When he's seen you without makeup in your avocado masque, without your contacts, you know you're in A Relationship. So, paradoxically, it's "exciting" to be boring.


But not forever. Spouses and long-term partners do have a tendency to "let themselves go" over time. Cozy can become routine, sweats can become unsexy...........Contd on the Link Below..


Wana Read More Follow The Link ...


http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/couplesandmarriage/articlelhj.aspx?cp-documentid=4877552

Thursday, June 14, 2007

JISM..." Feeling the Heat in black ......Silence & Passion Moves In Circle.. "




Aadi

Paap...." The Secret Behind RED "..!!!!! Try To Find Out..!!!!!!


Aadi.....

Nishabd...." Observe The Silence..."..!!!!!!!!!!!!


Aashiq Banaya Aapne....." Luv Takes Over..."


Aadi.......

RED - The Dark Side..." Sum where a fear of Luv.."


Aadi

One day tears came out ...Really nice ....!!!!!!


One day tears came out from my eyes and asked,"why are you forcing me to come out from your eyes when I dont want. I know that you are remembering some one who is very dear to you but you lost him. Why dont you to forget him."

I heard all the things and then I replied,"Yah of course he was very dear to me, no matter he is no more. And I am not forcing you come out, I am just sending my love to him through you because whenever you come out you dont come alone you also carrying his memories with you. Thats why I am crying. And another thing is that I am not able to forget him as he is living in my breath, heart and in my soul. He is always with me."

Then the tears of mine become silent and went off !!!!!!!!!!!


Aadi

Mere zindigi ke sathi mere sath chalna



Mere zindigi ke sathi mere sath chalna ,

Tu hi meri pyar ha tu hi karar ha
sare jahah se badkar tera intzar ha
tu ha abru wafa ki sath chalna....

Mere zindigi ke sathi mere sath chalna ,

Meri aarju ke taswir ha tu
jo ha dilbur ki wo tehvir ha tu
mere har gumao ki tafir ha tu
kaho aur kya meri taqdeer ha tu
yehi ek sapna leke mere sath chalna

Mere zindigi ke sathi mere sath chalna ,

Tujhe dil diya dil ke kabil tuhi ha
meri rah tu hi meri manzil tuhi ha
aate jati saso mein shamil tuhi ha
meri zindagani ka hasil tuhi ha
ha tujhe kasam wafa ke sath chalna...

Mere zindigi ke sathi mere sath chalna


Aadi...!!!!

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Try to think positive before u go down for the answer.



Try to think positive before u go down for the answer.


Once there was loving couple travelling in a bus in a mountainous area.
They decided to get down at some place. After the couple got down at some place the bus moved on. As the bus moved on, a huge rock fell on the bus from the mountain and crushed the bus to crumbs. Everybody on board was killed.

The couple upon seeing that, said, "We wish we were on that bus"

Why do u think they said that?
















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If they had remained on the bus instead of deciding to get down, the resulting time delay could have been avoided and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed ...!!!





Think positive in life always and look for opportunities when u can help others.





Warm Regards.....Aadi

Sirf Itnaa Hi Kahaa Hai, Pyaar Hai Tum se


Sirf Itnaa Hi Kahaa Hai, Pyaar Hai Tum se
Jazbaaton Ki Koi Numaayish Nahin Kee

Pyaar Ke Badley Sirf Pyaar Mangaa Hai
Rishtey Ki To Koi Guzaarish Nahin Kee

Chaaho To Bhulaa Denaa Humey Dil Se
Sadaa Yaad Rakhney Ki Sifaarish Nahin Kee

Khamoshi Se Toofaan Seh Letey Hai Jo
Un Baadlon Ne Izhaar Ki Baarish Nahin Kee

Tume Hi Maanaa Hai Rehnumaa Apnaa
Aur to kisi Chiz Ki Khwaahish Nahin kee

Aadi...

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

A little story,,,,,but full of love... .. Really Nice One..!!!!!!


A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was
kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please
hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl
said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked
the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your
hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand
go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what
happens, you will never let my hand go." In any relationship, the
essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand
of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold urs...

This mail is too short..........but carries a lot of
feelings.........its the best thing which i read this
morning.........good way to start off a day........have a nice day



Aadi..!!!!

Har ishq ka matlab gam nahi hota,


Har ishq ka matlab gam nahi hota,
Duriyo se pyar kam nahi hota,
Waqt bewaqt ho jati hai aankhein nam,
Kyonki yaado ka koi mausam nahi hota.

Na khawabo me dekha, na nazaro me dekha,
Hazaro me humne ek tumhi ko dekha
gum denewale to hal pal hai yaha,
har pal khushu dene walo me ek aapko hi dekha.

Teri yaad me aasuo ka samandar bana liya,
Tanhai ke saher me apna ghar bana liya,
Suna hai log pujte hai patther ko,
Is liye dil apna patther bana liya.

Haqiqat mohabbat ki judai hoti hai,
Kabhi kabhi pyar me bewafai hoti hai,
Hamari taraf haath badaha kar to dekh,
Dosti me kitni sacchai hoti hai

Rishton ki ye duniya hai nirali,
Sab rishton se pyari hai dosti tumhari,
Manzur hai aansu bhi aakhon me hamari,
Agar aa jaye muskan hotho pe tumhari.

Another Sweet Love Story.......



Another Sweet Love Story.......


Two butterflies were in love.........

One day, they decided to play Hide n Seek.......

During the play.....
Boy Butterfly - "A small game within us"
Girl Butterfly - "OK"
Boy Butterfly - "The one who sits in this flower tomorrow early in the morning.....that one loves the other one more....."
Girl Butterfly - "OK"

Next morning, the boy butterfly waits for the flower to open so that he can sit before the girl butterfly does......

Finally, the flower opened.....

What did he see.....?????........

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The girl butterfly had died inside the flower.....

She stayed there all night......so that early in the morning......as soon as she sees him.......she can fly to him and tell him how much she loved him........

This is true LOVE....

Life is LOVE.......

LIVING MIGHT MEAN TAKING CHANCES, BUT THEY ARE WORTH TAKING......
LOVING MIGHT BE A MISTAKE, BUT ITS WORTH MAKING........

So plzz dont give challenges to ur partner regarding love , bcos if he/she wins that challenge sumtime u loose the charm of life...

So frdz n buddies what r ur views ????

Warm Regards...Aadi

A Sweet luv story.........





A Sweet luv story
  ´♥` There was a Blind Gurl
   ´♥` WhO Hate Herself
   ´♥` cOz Of being Blind.
   ´♥` She Hate every1
  ´♥` Except her Boy friend..
 ´♥` 1 day de Gurl said
 ´♥` that if She can
 ´♥` Only c the wOrld
  ´♥` she will marry her bOyfriend,
   ´♥` One day sOme1
   ´♥` dOnated eyes On her
   ´♥` then she saw Every thing
  ´♥`including her bOyfriend ,
 ´♥` her bOyfriend ask her,
 ´♥` “nOw that u can c ,
 ´♥` will u Marry Me?“,
  ´♥` the girl was shOcked when
   ´♥` she saw her bOyfriend
   ´♥` is alsO Blind,
   ´♥` she refuse tO Marry him.
  ´♥` Her bOyfriend walk away
 ´♥` with Tears said,
 ´♥` “ just take care Of
 ´♥` my eyes dear.


Aadi

Monday, June 11, 2007

" Meri Hathoon Ki Lakiroon Mein Nahi Hai Naam Tera "



Ho ker Zameen Ki, Aasmaan Ki Chaah Kyun Karoon
Main Tujh ko Paanay Ki Tamanna Kyun Karoon



Mujh ko Khabar Hai Judai Tarpayegi Tujhe Har Pal
Is hi liye Bata de Main Tujh se Wafa Kyun Karoon



Aman Ko Mere Chot Lagay gi Gar Tu Na Mila Mujhe
Tujhe Apna Bana ne Ki Phir Dua Kyun Karoon

Teri Masoomiyat Ko Rab Ne Banaaya Hai Mohabbat Ke liye
Tujhe Na Chahne Ki Phir Main Khata Kyun Karoon

Teri Meri Qismat Ki Raahain Hain Judaa Judaa
Main Phir Teri Banjanay Ki Aarzoo Kyun Karoon



Meri Hathoon Ki Lakiroon Mein Nahi Hai Naam Tera
Main Tera Naam Apne Naam Se Milanay Ki Justajoo Kyun Karoon

Meri Baatain Tere Dil Mein Hamesha Bass Jaati Hain
Is Baat Ki Khabar Rakh Kar Main Koi Guftagoo Kyun Karoon

Batoon Batoon Main Benaam Fasaanay Banjaate Hain
Aur Aisi Adhuri Kahaani Ko Main Shuroo Kyun Karoon



joo Bhi Jazbaat Hai Dil Mein Dil Tak Mehfooz Hain
Yeh Bataoo Ke Main Unka Zikar Dubara Kyun Karoon



Mana Ke Mohabbat Bhari Nazar Dil Par Gehra Asar Karti Hai
Usay Pyaar Se Dekh Ker Us Par Koi Jaadoo Kyun Karoon

Mere Liye Yeh Mumkin Nahi Ke Main Teri Banjaoun Kabhi
Lekin Main Tujhse Mohabbat Ka Izhaar Kyun Karoon

Itna Dukhaaya Dil Ko Tunay Mere, Itna Rulaaya Hai Mujhe
Sub Kuch Sahoon Phir Bhi Tujhse Bay intiha Pyaar Kyun KAROON...




Door reh kar bhi tujh se mohabbat karna mujhe acha laga


Door reh kar bhi tujh se mohabbat karna mujhe acha laga
tu bata ,aakhir tujhe yeh waaqiaa kaisa laga?


Itne faslay mein bhi hain teri qurbat ke mazay
tujh se milna,tujh ko chahna mujhe acha laga


Silsalay teri yaadun ke phailay hain har taraf
teri chah,teri raah mein bhatakna mujhe acha laga


Raakh urrne lagi hai mann mein jalti bujhti yaadun ki
shaam dhalay teri yaad ke deep jalana mujhe acha laga


Kaise kahun tere bin dasti hai mujh ko tanhaii
teri ulfat,teri furqat mein ratt-jaga karna mujhe acha laga


Woh aanch thi hawa mein ke kali tak bhi sulagg gaii
aise mein tera ghatta ban ke barasna mujhe acha laga


Faaslay mitt na paaein ge inn dooriun ke kabhi
tasawar mein tera aa ke dil ko behlana mujhe acha laga


Cheen li neend jab aa ke teray khiyaalun ne
teri tasweer pe chupke se hountun ko rakhna mujhe acha laga.


Warm Regards...Aadi

The tears have dried up, but my eyes is still wet,



The tears have dried up, but my eyes is still wet,
The fright is gone, but my body still sweats.
The pain is gone, but my wound is still deep,
I have spoken my heart out, but secrets are still to keep.
I have closed my eyes, but am completely sleepless
I have cleaned up my house, but life is completely a mess
I try to live in a positive way, but pessimism doesn’t seem to end.
I try to be good to people, but always turn up in offend.


Warm Regards...Aadi

HOW FRIENDS BREAK UP ?.... Must Read....


How Friends Break ? Both Friends will think the other is busy and will not contact thinking it may b disturbing. As time passes both will think let the other contact. After that each will think why should I contact first. Here ur love will be converted to Hate. Finally without contact the memory becomes week. They forget each other.


One fine Day they will meet n blame one another. So Keep in touch with all your Friends. N Pass this to all your friends...I don't want to be one of this kind..so here iam to say u Hi,,,,take care keep in touch....

Here are the top most reply of a girl, when you propose her...



Here are the top most reply of a girl, when you propose her...



1) Nahi.................???
2) Chiiiii.....Kitne gande soch hain tumhare.......
3)
Maine tumhe sirf ek acche dost ki nazar se dekha hai ....
4) Mera pehle se ek boyfrnd hai....
5 ) Main in baton pe vishwas nahi karti, apne padhai pe dhyaan lagao...
6) tum abhi tak mujhe jaante kahan ho ?Yeh shayad infatuation hai....
7) Tumhara bank balance kitna hai.??
8) Magar last year to
maine tumhe raakhi baandhi thi ..hai naa..bhaiyya..??
9) Mein abhi is relation ke liye mentally prepared nahi hoo....
10) Mein apne dady se pooch ke tumhe kaal answer karu.??
11) Itni si baat kehne ke liye itni der lagaa di??
12) Ye donon ke dil me hai na, to phir kya kehna!!
13) Sorry
14) "..Apna chehra kabhi aayine me dekha hai... L..........."
15) "Main toh tumhe apna Bhai maanati hu"
16) "Yes .. I too like you . (but hope you don't cheat on me ) " . (Which we
guys most oftenly do ) 17) Phele kyon nahi bataya ab tum late ho gaye ..
18) Tum agar pehle mile hote to sochti.
19) Tumhari himmat kaise hui mere baare mein aisa sochne ki. (probably
followed by a slap)
20) Girl: mujhe sochna ka wakt do.
Guy: kitna wakt???(with hope)
Girl: saat janam
21) Mai ek shaadi shuda ladki hu ;-)
22) Mein tumhare chotte bhai se pyaar karti hoon.
23) Now that's a real tragedy..
Girl: Hee hee ..hee hee hee...hee ..hee..hee..
Hee hee ..hee hee hee...hee ..hee..hee..
24) Boy: I love U!
Gal: I don't think abt all this before marriage.
25) Keep loving I don't care.
26) Tum mere liye kya kar sakte ho.
27) Kaun sa number hai mera tumhare proposals ki history mein.
Ha ha ha ha..
28) tumhe is nazar se kabhi dekha nahi
29) tumhare barre mein kabhi aisa socha nahi
30) mummy se pooch kar bataungi
31) mere bhaiyya se baat kar lo , who hi tumhe samajhayenge
32) Knyo, Tina ne "No" bola?
33) Lekin tum to Mina ke piche pade the, Kya usne thappad mara?
34) Kitne time ke liye -???
35) Worst one-- Jo bhi bolna hai jaldi bolo mera beta bula raha ha


Warm Regards...Aadi

HOW TO KISS


HOW TO KISS



Here are some basic, yet important kissing tips !!!


Great Breath


This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out
on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad
breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual
kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish
eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You
don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.


Moist Lips

You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue
over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that
tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick
unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist
lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives
both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.


Positioning



Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together
tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is
tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.


Close Eyez



Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to
leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner
prefers, it is best to close your eyes.


Open Lips




Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips.
Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet,
press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in
a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.


Closed Lips

This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead
of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is
also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes.
It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if
you're nervous.


Warm Regards...Aadi

Shabnami raat ho aur har taraf andhera ho



Shabnami raat ho aur har taraf andhera ho
Ek chaadar me lipten do badan, ek tera ho ek mera ho

Mere makhmali badan mein, khushbuon ke chaman me,
Sadiyon tak wo raat chale, sadiyon duur sawera ho

Tere hothon ko jab sil doon main, apne hothon ke dhage se
Ek sannate me khamoshi se, teri bhaahon ne mujhko ghera ho

Dono lipten ek dooje me, Ik gaanth si lag jaaye badano me
Mere jism me ghar miljaye tujhe, tere jism me mera basera ho

Dil kehta hai kuch aisa ho, tu ban jaye main, aur main ban jaun tu
Bistar per tere mere siwa, sirf junoon or khamoshi ka dera ho



Aadi....